Saturday, December 6, 2008

Hard to Know?


One of them is lying. Kind of movie that was doomed on the eyes of viewers, same by an problematic premise and ill-cogent character motivation.
Benjamin Barry ( Matthew McConaughey) is an advertising executive and ladies' who to win a big campaign, bets that he can make woman fall in love him in 10 days. Andie Anderson covers the '' How to lose a guy in 10 days? " beat for " composure"magazine and is assigned to write an article on How to lose a guy in 10 days , meet in a bar shortly after the bet is made . ( Just as Public Distance turned to Intimate distance zone? )
:"People from all over the world have different perspectives of what behaviors are considered appropriate for a specific setting. When these behaviors impact other people in a negative way, expectancy violations has occurred. In "How to Lose a Guy in 10 days," this theory identifies with the nature of two people meeting to form a potential relationship. When forming a relationship, both individuals have "preconceived Italicexpectations" on how the other person will engage in conversation (Biernat & Billings, 1999). However, men and women hold different views on relationship expectations (Cohen, 2007).

I got glued in this movie. Well, in fact I never consider myself as an ignorant with this type of uninteresting movie ( Peace (: ). But,why does I decided to watch this movie if it viewed as " UNINTERESTING?". It's my task.. I better do.

Last, 2 weeks we were given a 3 hours to watch and analyze this movie. Find it vague , really. In the long run, I got fine and I must continue.

How technical, foooof!. Thinking further is quite intricate for me to analyze this movie, Expectancy Violation Theory match to " HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN JUST 10 DAYS?"

First, we need to know how did the movie being linked in the given theory.
From the very genesis or perhaps, it's too cogent to have alots of covered critiques and reactions.
Spectators and readers of the story may find many consumptions, reactions that were being violated in different events.
The scenario that was being shown in the movie fed lessons towards the expected outcome flown in this movie.

Indeed, " Expectancy Violation Theory", there were 60/100 resulted violation. To be dearth in some points of desired expectation from both casts.
Hey, does it sounds fair if we won't find any violations " HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN 10 DAYS?".

Violation occurs anytime, it may be in non-verbal or verbal. As we attached this in given 4 personal space zone, we find it as vague.

"Sometimes you play well and deserve to win but you end up losing. The most important thing for us is to make sure we're consistent throughout the season".

In Proxemics we'll have an idea to justify this thing. Here we may find an obviuos results in relation to their becoming "relationship". Both of them are intimate to one another. Does " violation valence'" as resulted to the communicator influence how the violation will affect communication outcomes it could be negative or positve depending to who's doing the said behavior. Jus
t like this when - she's trying to lose him, in the contrary Bejamin is doing whatever it takes to keep here! We can see an conclude here that by trying there were many scenes that was being violated in the expection of Andie. Same with Benjamin expectation doing his best to win Andie.

EVT helped me to give my first and final analysis, even though I was in the stage of ambiguous mind because when you " Love" it must be in the next to next steps. Perhaps, it's really in own contest. Personal space is too invisible does we find it hard to always rely in our own expectations.

Does EVT exists in this stupid line? " You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back".

Well, it's now interesting!

word counts: 501







Sunday, November 30, 2008

JUst W ith HIm.


Believe me….

trial and error is not the best way to test God’s WORD because, when you least expect it, an explosion will occur.

I’ve been there, done that too. If you’re all wondering if I’m really saved, let me assure you, I AM> But I’m also human enough to realize that most of you have not yet ascended to lofty heights of spirituality where your flesh and its longings atre no longer an issue.

Get up, REPENT, dust your self off and move on.

mUch profound if u’ll going to discover intimately God’s mighty Power…

BEing protected by GOd WoW!..

I thank HIM much for until now He’s there always to lift me up and keeps on reminding me that I AM HIS CHILD AND HE will never forsake me. It’s because HE love me and will always love me..

LOve you DAddy GOd!

Yankee your child.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Sino sa kanila?

Iilang tao na ang aking nakitaan ng mga sari-saring aksyon..
Iilan narin ang aking nakilala...
Iilan sa kanila naging kaibigan ko na..
Iilan pa nga ba?

Matapos kong balikan ang mga nakaraan..
Matapos kong makita ang mga taong aking nakasalamuha..
Matapos kong itanong sa kanila na " Kumusta?"...
Matapos kong tanggapin ang mga kasagutang hind ko kailanman inasahan..
Matapos kong tingnan ang kanilang mga magagandang buhay...
At matapos iyon ay sarili ko naman ang aking binalikan...


Patuloy parin ako sa paglalakad...
Patuloy sa pag-iisip..
agad kong naramdaman
ang kirut sa aking puso...
ang mga salitang hindi ko parin kayang tanggapin at unawain ..
ang mga pabaung hindi ko naman hinangad...

Tingnan mo ang iyong sarili " Juana" ang baho-bahu muna...
Para kang malansang isda...
Aba.. umalis ka na..
Hindi na kita kaibigan!
Hindi na.

Sino ka? Umalis ka nga rito nagdadala ka lang ng malas na negosyo ko.. AliS!
Pagpasensyahan mo ha?Talagang wala na akong matandaan sa'yo.

Sino nga ba ako? Sino nga Ba Ako?
Napagod ako sa paglalakad...
Nakakita ako ng tindahan na may pagkalaking salamin....
Tama nga talaga..
Tama lang na ako'y kanilang kamuhian..
Tama na ako'y itakwil ng ang kaibigan,anak, magulang..

Asan ka na " Julio" asan kana?
Ba't nagkaganito?
Ba't ako'y isinuka na ng Mundo?
Ba't nawala..
Ba't ako'y naging isang palaboylabuy nalang..

Asan na ang aking kayamanan?
Asan na ang aking pinaghirapan?
Julio asan ka?

Ako ba'y nagkulang?
Asan ba ako nagkulang?
Kasalanan ba ang ika'y aking " inilibing ng buhay?''.

Monday, November 17, 2008

YES? or NO? ( COM101)

" Yes ". Given the reasons below:1. Yes. It is a good thing because the simpler the better to avoid confusions and misleading interpretation of given situation.2. It will give the simplest way of explaining a certain events or phenomenon.But, as I read and analyze the question, I decided not to glued my ideas in just simple explanation.I begin to ask my friends what is their view about this query. Searching for best opinion is quite difficult. Especially if they're not interested to the given topic and query.I think I have to sleep for a moment.Yankee? Do you really want to learn if " Parsimony is always a good thing?''. Yes, I want to know what is the best answer to that query. I think it's just "often" but not that "always".After 4hrs of sleep , I now have happy face.First defined to be a valid criterion for choosing between theories.It is an issue. For example, In line with the communication I believe that people nowadays, wants to have simple theory because they're not fond of searching alot of more deep ideas but rather ' Simple' thoughts of view is much accepted.
Hence, we cannot deny the fact that " some" of us wants to have intricate theory for better answer in a complex type of phenomena.
Another example, " When you read a magazine or a newspaper and if that article brings intricate theory, how can it be possible that people esp. in rural areas, can understand immediately and can relate to the said issue? If that is really vague; hard for them to understand. Parsimony is really important to be used in this situation. I strongly believe also that we need to consider people who is hard to catch and understand certain issues.Let's be more sensitive in away that they can easily get the real point of the given topic. It's not new to us that " Simplicity is Beauty" in all aspects.
Since, time much effort has gone into demonstrating the claim that either system was more parsimonious than the other.
Up to now I'm still confuse because I agreed that, if the goal is only to descibe data accurately, then parsimony is irrelevant. If the goal is to descibe accurately and concisely, or predict future events in the presence of noise. then parsimony becomes our guard against over-fitting.
Also, there must be a thorough analysis first before we could get there right explanation of a certain phenomenon. Indeed, it will be a great help in coming up with conclusions by gathering facts and coming up with right analysis.
I then learned that parsimony is " a principle that states the simplest explanation that explains the greatest number of observations to have more complex explanation".
By treating two topics separately it should be cleare not only how parsimony is applied, but what it is all about.
This is to accept the truth that ' PARSIMONY IS NOT ALWAYS A GOOD THING , BUT IT IS GOOD TO SAY OFTEN. Sometimes we need to accept that it is better to have intricate theory for most valid answer.
Thanks for the time that I used to sleep , so when I'm vague there's still another way for me to analyze things well.

word count :506

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

This is it! Courtship?

Gradually, as I studied , listened to others and sat at the feet of Jesus, I came to accept that there were certain principles that have to be followed in the cause of courtship.

This is not because love is a “GAME”, but ‘coz God has desined a certain role for men and women and a certain role for men.

Now for all you women’s rubbers, I am not referring to becoming dish washers and doormats, but I am convinced that the only way to have an effective relationship -the way God has designed it is for both parties to stick to their roles.

Through time of listening and learning, I've discovered that we Single women need to relax. hahhahhhahhaha..

Sunday, November 9, 2008

YAw Pag Punnggi Ang...

ayaw og dagan
ayaw kalagot
ayaw pagsumbong
ayaw og kaulaw..
tindog! ayaw pag kamang..
sabaya lang ang imong mga tiil
sabaya ang mga pagsulay sa kinabuhi
ana jud na
ana ng kinabuhi sa mga gwapa og gwapo na pinalangga.
Kung ikaw mahadlok kana kay gamay ra kaayo..
Kung ikaw ga duha duha pag isipa jud og tarong
Og kung ikaw Kalibangun Ayaw og kaulaw..
Kay kana makapatay..
Igawas og human Bubui og Tubig para dili musungaw!
Ka'y Ikaw gitaan og kaalam.. Kaya ayaw tawon sayangi..
pagtarung kay lisod nag di ka mata ugma sa kabuntagun na pastang humuta.
cge na....

hmmmmp try and you''l see ...
too fine yet cool be alone.
too hard yet too simple to obey...
hard to compromise things but I am so blank..
hard to forget but I have too..
sumtyms I regret but then again for what? no sense at all..
y shud I sleep yet my eyes wants to see all His creations..
hmmmmp how to live freely? Just be urself..

Miss ma Min...



Hello eul, tish and reg hope will hve suym bondng moments soon.. I am so blessed to hve u gals.. hope ur all ok.. I miss u alot!

to eul: keep kind.. be strong always.. tnx for everything.. tnx for all ur help.. i love u...

to tish: pls. don't get mad but im pleasing you to think well and be strong too.. ok? i love u

to reg: hmmmp ang bb ng group well ur still our bb tc always.. i love u..

Some good things never last forever...


That's what I realized now..
I am happy coz finally I found solution to my unstoppable problem..
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..... I want to grow.. I want to reach those dreams ..
I really want to..
I am happy and will cont. to be strong and learn more how to be matured..
C'est LA vie! ..
That's life..
You need to face those fear.. for u to find the true essence of life.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

MOm..

I just want you to know that " I LOVE YOU SO MUCH".
So much more that you could ever imagine.
I know that I'm not that best daughter in the world. I am not even good. I do stupid things with ma life. I don't know why I can do those things. Even I not like that, I'm trying ma best to make you proud. I want to do anything that that could embaras you. I know I've hurt you and still continue to hurt you. I am really sorry, I didn't mean it.
Thank you for being the best mother. Thank you for loving me unconditionally. Thank you for accepting with all your heart. Thank you for being there always. Thank you for making me cry up to now.

IT's hard to start all over again..


Happy together..
My LTH family.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Alone here!

Who wants to be my shadow? Hi! I'm yankee