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It's been a long time since I decided not to have ' textmate or chatmate'. Too tiring and boring.

Waste of time and money.

But, unfortunately I have to search again and again. Promptly, last December 24, 2008, this task given forced me to use my pen and paper again jotting down alots of number - A Scientific guess? 0919..0918.. 0909. Sendeng around 11pm-12mn this text message " Merry Christmas!!!". Unluckily, I failed to received replies from those mobile numbers. Well, they said Patience is a virtue. I just waited 'till December 25.

One message received ' Hi! Merry christmas too. Kilala kita? Pakilala nga...' sent: 12/25 @ 4:34:10pm

I then give a beap to his text. This must be my lucky day. I texted my honest reply by saying ' Hey! this is yankee. And u r? sent: 12/25 @ 4: 36:12

Fast text here! He didn't failed to answer my query ' I'm chase. san m n q ha ang # q? '

Wow! I am too confident that this guy is possible to be my text friend. I make sure that have to be put an extra care on my text replies because I am quite afraid that he might discard or ignore my text. It has been a surprise when tried to call me. 'What am I gonna do? ' .
So to cut the story I answered his call. Just a 2mins. conversation. He just only want to hear my voice.

This gave me a verbal cues. I guess this guy don't believe that really I am a girl or it could be he just only want to test me?.

In Social Information Processing Theory, Complextity are being discussed because there are times that ' disclosure' happens as a mere way of expressing oneself and not necessarily as a way of being close or developing a relationship with someone.

This happened when Chase, shared about his personal life with regards to his family and former girlfriend ' Alam mo yankee, mahirap lang kami kaya cvguro kmi nag break..' sent: 12/26 @ 10:12:05

I wasn't able to give my fast reply, I want to think for a better avdice. I am not a good adviser. ' Hard time' .

Here, it's my not in my expectation that we'll reach this way. I feel timid and pity.

' I am sori chase, 4 late text been bz.. doin hometasks..
Pls. don't think that b'coz ur poor you dnt have ryt to be loved. Life is not that easy to grasp but all you need to do is to be positive and take it as a big challenge in life =) okamz? be happy. ' sent: 12/26 @ 1: 12: 15

I believe his busy too because, Chase by the way is a Registered Nurse from Iloilo. So I need to understand him.

Feedback, really works here! . Self - Fulfilling Prophecy
- tendency for persson's expectation of others to evoke a response from them that confirms what he she anticipated. Believing it's so can make it so.
Senders self-select what they reveal, receivers create an idealized image of their partner, and channel lets users express themselves the way they want, when they want.

After hours, after hours Chase send me a thak you message. ' Salamat yank, and cnxa bz dn eh. Musta? ' sent: 12/27 18:12:09

There, our friendship with the use of CMC is working well. My feedback and his feedback resulted as fine.
On the other hand, eventhough we failled to text back promptly, I learned that ' a delayed response to someone may indicate receptivity and liking in a more intimate relationship; partners are comfortable with one another do not need to reply each other quickly.